The VIP 1:1 Mentorship for the high-achieving woman who has built everything except the love life.
And is ready to leave with the relationship, the man and the life that finally matches her level.
LET'S BE REAL
You have built a career most people only dream about. The independence. The flat. The social life. You show up, you deliver, you figure it out — every single time. You are genuinely one of the most self-aware women in any room you walk into. You are not someone who needs fixing. But you are also...
01
Keeping your Saturday free just in case he messages.
Even though you know he probably won't. And when he doesn't you sit at home feeling exhausted and embarrassed — like you keep betraying yourself for someone who isn't even thinking about you.
02
Letting a situationship live rent free in your head during the one presentation you needed to nail.
You have worked too hard to build this career to have it overtaken by someone who can't even be bothered to text back consistently.
03
Closing your laptop after a record month with nobody to call except your mum.
The win feels hollow in a way you cannot explain. You are winning. But you are also not.
And that is exactly why Soft & Successful exists.
"I finally separated my value from those results. I started showing up more boldly and making decisions that actually served me. I feel clearer, more grounded, and much more confident in how I carry myself."
— Client G
Here is what changes.
You stop ending up in the same almost-relationship.
You go on dates with genuine curiosity — no invisible scorecard, no performing, no replaying it for three hours afterwards.
Your love life stops bleeding into your work.
You are mid-presentation and fully present. The phone buzz does not derail you anymore.
The win finally feels complete.
You close a record month and call him first. He picks up on the second ring already knowing from your voice something good happened.
Here is exactly what you get.
Bi-weekly bespoke 1:1 calls built entirely around you — your patterns, your history, your life. Not a generic programme.
Full COCOON audio programme included — worth £600 — so the foundational work is covered from day one.
Private weekly text support drop-ins between calls — for the date that triggered something, the text you are not sure how to respond to.
Free ongoing support until you are in the relationship. The only condition is that you show up every month actively getting yourself out there.
"There was a fear of rejection lingering from years before. Tess helped me uncover where it all came from and everything started to shift. That one mindset shift made such a difference to how I see myself."
Client J
The Highest League Guarantee
I do not work with you and wave you off when the programme ends. I stay in your corner for free until you have the relationship that matches your level. No other coach is doing this. And I do it because I am that confident in the work.
The investment
£4,500
Payment plans available — DM SOFT on Instagram to discuss options.
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I read every application personally and reply within 48 hours.
Ready to finally have it all?
You are not looking to be told you deserve love. You already know that. You are looking for someone who can finally show you why you keep getting in your own way — and give you the precise tools to stop.